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Tuesday, December 25, 2007

Name the Fund

At this post from the other day, we gave an update as to the status of John's scholarship fund. One of the things to accomplish during the next several weeks is to come up with a permanent name for the fund.

By way of background, the nickname for Mother Catherine Spalding School is the Pelicans. As such, one of the names we were contemplating for the fund is "John's Pelican Technology Fund" aka "John's Pel Tech." This captures the essence of John's love of technology and harkens back to his alma mata, VA Tech, to which he remained connected to the end.

Let us know what you think by posting a comment to this entry, to include any alternative suggestions you may have.

Sunday, December 23, 2007

The Gift of Stories & Photos

Today, John's earliest best friend, Joe, along with his wife, dropped by for a visit. They brought with them photos of John we had not seen before, and even better, stories of John we had not heard. It was a wonderful gift to be shared, and we are so grateful. Some of the pictures are here.

Thursday, December 20, 2007

Return to Machu Picchu

One of the most exhilarating things John did in his life was to hike up the Andes to Machu Picchu, a pre-Columbian Inca site located at 7,970 ft above sea level on a mountain ridge in Peru. Often referred to as "The Lost City of the Incas", Machu Picchu was built around the year 1450 and abandoned a hundred years later, at the time of the Spanish conquest. By clicking on the email to the left, you can read in his own words how this adventure impacted John.

Several month ago, Chris, who was an intern in John's Dad's office this summer, spent some time in South America. While there, he too hiked to Machu Picchu and, as you can see, brought with him John's picture. This is yet one more way how not only John's picture, but his overall life continues to be compelling.

Tuesday, December 18, 2007

John's Scholarship Fund Update

One of the purposes of this blog is to keep John's family and friends up to date with respect to the status of the scholarship fund established in his memory. This fund has become a truly fitting tribute to John. To date, almost $51,000.00 has been contributed and donations still periodically arrive, especially during the season of holiday giving. We anticipate considerably more will be available once the affairs of John's estate are settled.

To remind everyone, the original objective of the fund was to, as John's brother says, help the "big geek" foster a lot of "little geeks" who share John's love of information technology. To that end, we have identified an exciting opportunity to continue John's legacy. It involves the elementary school that John attended from the 2nd through 7th grade, Mother Catherine Spalding School in Helen, MD. John started there when we first moved to Maryland in 1983 and went there until we moved to Belgium in 1989 and as such, it had a big impact upon John's formative years. In addition, John is buried in the cemetery directly behind the school, which provides yet another connection.

We have had preliminary discussions with school and archdiocesan officials and have focused at this point in time on potentially equipping the middle school grades of Mother Catherine with enough laptop computers that each student will have one to use in class. The objective would be to have the use of the internet and various software applications directly incorporated into lesson plans across the board. This would allow students and teachers to directly incorporate the use of information technology into all course work rather than being limited to a computer lab that can be accessed only periodically during the week.

We want to make certain that this makes the most sense for the students and faculty before any hard commitments are made at this point in time. Nonetheless, we also want to make certain that all of John's family and friends are aware of the latest developments in this area.

For those interested, contributions can still be made to:

John William Leonard Memorial Scholarship Fund
c/o Bank of America
28250 Three Notch RD
Mechanicsville, MD 20659

UPDATE: A tax-deductible charitable scholarship fund in John's memory has been established at Mother Catherine Spalding School. For those interested, tax-deductible contributions can be made to:

MCSS for J.W. Leonard Technology Scholarship

and can be mailed to:

Mother Catherine Spalding School
Helen, MD 20635

Thanks to all for your continuing generosity and for helping the "Big Geek foster a lot of little geeks."

Sunday, November 25, 2007

Memories of a "Mini Road Trip"

In addition to the memories of road trips past included in the below post, Mom wanted to be certain that we captured for the blog our fond memories of an excursion that, while not a road trip, constituted the last time all five of us were together.

It was February 24, 2007. Dad had to work that Saturday so Mom and Jes came into town that morning as well. While Dad worked, Mom and Jes latched-up with JW and Mike. After Starbucks, while Dad was at a meeting, the gang went to the International Spy Museum which, even though John and Mike were two intel weenies, neither had been to before. It was the second time for Mom.

Later that afternoon, after Dad got out of the meeting, we all met outside the National Archives and, like so many other Leonard excursions, we winged it. One of the objectives for that night was to go to the Belgian restaurant on 11th Street by the Marine Barracks. Somehow, it did not seem to work out with reservations, so instead we went to the Native American Museum on the Mall -- not the best choice in retrospect. After that we wanted to go see the German thriller/drama The Lives of Others (Best Foreign Language Film, 2006) at the E Street Cinema, but the show we wanted to see was sold out. So we punted again and went to Ella's for an early dinner of pizza cooked in a wood fired oven.

The food, the drinks, and especially the conversation were great -- it having been Lord knows when since just the five of us had the opportunity to just sit around and enjoy each other's company. We then had some more time to kill while waiting for the next show time so we all went to the ESPN Zone downtown where everyone shot some hoops. It seems Jes was able to get the best of just about everybody that night.

We then went to the late show of the movie which brought back found memories of earlier road trips to East Berlin since the movie took place in that divided city about the same time we lived in Europe. Little did we know that we would loose John just 6 weeks later but we are so thankful that we all took advantage of the time we had. We are also thankful for Alex and Gina sharing John and Mike with us that evening so that it could just be Mom, Dad and the kids one more time!

Saturday, November 24, 2007

Family Road Trip

Thanksgiving around the family dining room table, of course, was not an option this year. The challenge was to try to replace some of the pain with something positive. First objective -- avoid the reminders of THE FAVORITE FAMILY HOLIDAY by going somewhere where Thanksgiving is not even celebrated. Mom was hoping for someplace warm like the Bahamas. Dad suggested a more practical (yet considerably colder) Canada. Closest border crossing to Maryland is Niagara Falls -- thus the gift of one last Leonard Family Road Trip consisting of just Mom, Dad and the kids.

Family road trips constitute some of the fondest memories for most families. The Leonards are no exception. As best as we can recall, the last road trip that entailed Mom, Dad and all the kids was over 10 years ago when we all went to Aunt Sue's and Uncle John's place in Nantucket. During the trip, J.W. celebrated his 21st birthday and thus enjoyed his first "legal" beer while in town. One of John's best friends, Joe, joined us on the trip and provided many memories as well, to include standing in the surf all night long fruitlessly, yet determinedly, fishing if only for hauling all that fishing gear so far. On the way home, J.W., Joe and Mike achieved some sort of "distinction" by reciting almost the entire script of the movie Dumb and Dumber while traveling down I-95 between Providence, RI and the NY-CT state line.

Many memorable road trips, of course, took place in Europe, such as when Mom, Dad, the kids as well as Mammy & Papa traveled from Belgium to Ireland. While there, J.W. celebrated his 14th birthday. We all stayed in a real thatched cottage, behind which was a cow pasture surrounded by an electric fence. Somehow, John and Mike thought it was a good idea to challenge each other to keep touching the electric fence. Both said that after a while, it didn't hurt as much (of course, the dumb cows never resorted to such actions). Another memory was finding ourselves staring down a 50 cal. machine gun while going trough a border checkpoint going into Northern Ireland for a pizza dinner.

Other trips included Paris (where Dad and the kids had to walk up the Eiffel Tower since we could only afford elevator tickets for Mom & Grandma); Italy where John and Mike brought "switchblades" at Mt. Etna and JW lost in Rome a model Lamborghini car that Grandma had bought him; Heidelberg where Mom & Dad trusted JW to take his brother and sister out to dinner at a restaurant (where they had pizza encrusted with salt) while Mom & Dad went to an event for Dad's graduation from Boston University; and Berlin where all the kids were content to stay in the hotel room watching the video of the Karate Kid notwithstanding being in one of the most historic cities of the 20th century.

Of course, there is the very first road trip where Mom, Dad and JW went to the Pennsylvania Dutch country when he was only one-years old and JW got his train engineer's cap that he kept for so many years; followed by the trip to Myrtle Beach where Mom, Dad & JW joined John's godparents, Sue and Steve and their nephew, Anthony, in a pop-up tent on the beach. Both JW and Anthony cried incessantly until they were blessed by the priest at Mass that weekend. They were both little angels after that.

It was in this vein, that Mom, Dad, Mike & Jessica, joined by memories of John, embarked on one last great Leonard Road Trip. Of course, there will be other road trips to come, joined by new our new daughter-in-law, Gina and a future son in-law as well as grandchildren yet to come, but never again will the "five" of us experience such an opportunity to be together by ourselves. Since we thought the last of such trips was ten years ago, we are, or course, appreciative of this opportunity. The only way it could have been better is if we did not have to settle for just memories of John, no matter how sweet they may be.

We stayed at an interesting Bed & Breakfast in Niagara Falls, ON. You can see for yourself additional details of the last great Leonard family road trip by clicking on the below picture:

Family Road Trip

Where in the World Continued

Recall the original challenge and the subsequent first out of the gate by Mike and Gina. Well, it seems the VT Gnome continued his world travels with a trip to Niagara Falls, Canada from November 21-24, 2007. See the photos below as well as the following post for more details.

Sunday, November 18, 2007

Warmth and Comfort Fulfilled

Recall the earlier blog entry regarding Mom & Dad's birthday gift to Alex -- a quilt made, in part, from swatches of John's clothes. The local Amish woman has finished the process by adding batting material and a backing. Together with memories of John, we hope that this quilt gives Alex warmth and comfort. To see what the finished quilt looks like, click on the photo to the right.

Sunday, October 28, 2007

Yet Another Posting That Should Have Been Made Earlier

(Click on the letter in order to read the text).

A Posting That Should Have Been Made Earlier

Includes the below letter

... which says so much about John's professional contributions. (Click on the letter in order to be able to read the text).

Wednesday, October 17, 2007

Where in the World, Indeed

You all may recall that a couple of months ago, John's AT issued somewhat of a challenge at this post as to where in the world the VT gnome would show up next. Well, as indicated by the below pictures, Mike and Gina were first up in continuing John's peripatetic spirit.

Monday, October 8, 2007

John's Toast to Mike & Gina

Mike popped the big question to Gina Saturday night and she said yes! Mike then surprised Gina with a big celebration in Old Town Alexandria with plenty of family and friends in attendance. Dad had the opportunity to give the toast that John would have given; telling his bro that he did good and that he was glad that Mike finally listened to his (John's) advice. Similarly, Dad passed on to Gina John's joy at having another sister to love, especially since he already has such great love for his little sister, Jes. From Mom & Dad's perspective, we are so heartened to see that John and Mike are each blessed with having a fantastic woman to love and to be loved by. It gives us great joy to see our children experience the same depth of love that we have been able to share for over 35 years. Mike and Gina will soon return from Europe with pictures showing all the places visited by the VT gnome.

Sunday, September 30, 2007

John and Grandma Together Again

This morning, shortly before 9:00 a.m., Grandma (John's Mom's Mom) joined John in heaven. While heaven represents the fulfillment of the human spirit, do they have "Octadogs" there?

Thursday, September 27, 2007

John's Picture

Mike and Dad were comparing notes the other day about people we have become aware of as of late who keep John's picture close at hand. What was notable was not the fact that these individuals keep John's Mass Card in all the usual places (e.g. on the refrigerator, in the pocketbook, etc.) but that so many of the people displaying John's picture in such a fashion never met him personally. And without a doubt, what was compelling for each of these individuals was not the circumstances of John's death but rather the manner in which he lived God's gift of life. Somehow, someway, without even reflecting upon it, John managed to live his day-by-day life in a manner which can serve as an inspiration to others. Like all of us, John was not a saint on earth; rather he was someone who loved life and lived it to the fullest and thus, without even trying, has proved to be an inspired example to so many others. And because of this, the ripples of John's life will continue to influence others long after the photos have faded away.

Sunday, September 9, 2007

The Rock

Alex always wanted to go visit Alcatraz but no one was willing to make the boat trip with her; no one, that is, other than John. On their last trip to San Francisco this past December, John and Alex planned on visiting Alcatraz. However, they did not realize that you needed reservations so when they showed up for the boat trip, they could not get on. Thus, John and Alex planned to visit Alcatraz the next time they were in San Francisco. While that was not to be, Alex, nonetheless, made it to Alcatraz last weekend when she returned to San Francisco to visit family. That weekend, Alex, Ina and Anca made it to The Rock. And although John never made it there, Alex made certain that The Rock came to John as you can see in the below pictures.

Monday, September 3, 2007

Yet More Running With John

Continuing on the course of action he planned with his brother earlier this year, Michael ran a half marathon in Virginia Beach on Labor Day weekend. He and Gina, his one person cheering squad, proudly displayed John's image, both literally (on their shirts) and figuratively (through their dedication and gumption) for all to see. John was definitely proud of his "little" brother. Next stop for Michael (and maybe Dad, too) is the Army 10-Miler in October. You can see pictures of yet more running with John by clicking on the below image.

Yet More Running With John

Sunday, September 2, 2007

Alex's Gift to John

This Past Christmas...

...was a nifty digital camera. All the pictures he ever took with the camera were still loaded when we found the camera in his condo. Included were pictures from last Christmas with Alex's family; John's and Alex's trip to San Francisco; a trip to Hoover Dam; John and Alex celebrating New Years in Las Vegas; and last but not least, the snow boarding trip to Pennsylvania that John, Alex, Michael, and Jessica took this past March. We thought family and friends would want to view the last pictures of and by John and they can be seen by clicking on the below picture. All in all, they once again affirm John's love for life, his love for Alex, and his love for his brother and sister.

Alex's Gift to John

Friday, August 31, 2007

Updates to Green Braclet

Photos of Jessica's initial Ithaca experience can be seen by clicking on the below photo:
Jess @ Ithaca!


Yet more photos of Jess' Ithaca experience can be seen by clicking on the below photo:
Ithaca is Gorges

Green Bracelet

"So what does the green bracelet stand for?"

This is a question I have been asked many times since I have worn my DONATE LIFE bracelet every single day since John's wake. I wear it when I dress up, dress down, in the shower, in the pool, during a game, and when I sleep. I wear it as a reminder of the ultimate gift John was able to give to so many others. I wear it with pride for my big brother.

Nonetheless, just like most things in life, this one simple piece of green plastic gives me conflicting emotions. I am happy and proud of my brother's gift to numerous other human beings but I am sad that it was given at the ultimate sacrifice -- the fact that others are given years to spend with the ones they love but only because we all have to wait a lifetime to see John again. However, life is amazing.

As many of you know, I have recently started my life as a graduate student in Ithaca, New York. The first few days of class were full of ice breakers and story sharing in order to get to know my peers. One classmate asked me what my green bracelet stood for and when she found out, she showed me her right wrist that wore the exact same bracelet. She said proudly and thankfully that her father just received a lung transplant within the last year and she was so grateful that her father, who was an otherwise healthy man in his forties with a rare lung condition, was a successful transplant. Although he is still in the recovery phase, he has been able to enjoy life with his family again.

Although I did not explain to her John's story at that time, we had a chance to hang out the following night. I was able to explain to her and others who were listening all about John's tale of tragedy and delight. I was able to explain his passion for his family, his work, and his life. But the best part of all, I got to listen more about the impact that John, and everyone who donates organs to others, has on the organ recipients and those who love them. It is one thing to read in a letter about the the receiving patients and their appreciation; but it is much more rewarding to actually sit down and talk to a fellow female of the same age who experienced the actual joy and thrill of the life donation.

If life was not remarkable enough, the fellow student also applied to Springfield College, my other choice of graduate school. Although I was thinking it, she remarked that it must have been fate that we would meet at graduate school. So I end this surprising tale with one of my favorite quotes: "You may not end up where you thought you were going to be, but you always end up where you are meant to be."

Wednesday, August 29, 2007

Sunday, August 26, 2007

Running With John

Of the many goals of this year, one of the boldest was the aspiration of John, Mike and Dad to together run the Marine Corps Marathon this November in Washington, DC. In preparation of this audacious goal, John, Mike and Dad had set out on a plan which included the running of a number of races between April and October 2007 in order to get into shape for the November marathon. Included was the Chesapeake Bay Bridge 10K in April and the Chaptico Classic 10K in August 2007 (Chaptico is a small village about 10 miles from where John's Mom & Dad live). It was, of course, not to be. Nonetheless, Mike and Dad have continued on in their own way. Mike perseveres in his goal to complete the marathon this November although Dad has conceded to reality and age and will not run this November

The Chaptico Classic 10K was held this weekend and pictures can be seen by clicking on the below photo:
Running With John

Of note, John and Dad ran the 10K and Jes participated in the 3 mile walk. The course was a figure eight, which is why you see photos of the runners Mike and Dad in the middle of this album. Mike finished first in his age category. It was a brutal day from the perspective of temperature and humidity (one of the hottest of the summer). Nonetheless, all experienced the fullness of the moment, to include John who, without a doubt, was there in spirit.

The first objective of the collective plan was to run the Bay Bridge 10K in April. Alas, that was not to be for a variety of reasons to include the fact that in that on race day, the race was canceled due to gale force winds on the Bay. Nonetheless, photos from that day can be seen by clicking on the below photo:

Running With John 2

Wednesday, August 22, 2007

Easy Rider

Continuing the sense of adventure that she and John shared, Alex took to the course a few weeks ago to learn how to ride a motorcycle. While she was able to maintain the bike upright (for the most part) without the benefit of training wheels, if you look close enough, I think you can see John riding on her shoulder.